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In Her Soft Wind I Will Whisper

Lady on the left? My great-grandmother. She would have been ninety-six today.

The photo was taken in the early 1950s outside her cottage and she is with two of her sons, K and T.

I have several photos of her; my other favourite is from the 1930s when she was approached by a travelling salesman who wanted her to become a hair model. I presume she shot him one of her withering glances. The photo shows her with long, gorgeous hair. I was told it was chestnut-coloured. The photo is black/white.

I was lucky enough to grow up around her. She minded me when I was pre-kindergarten and I spent most of my school holidays in her cottage. Her cottage did not have running water until I was maybe seven or eight and never got central heating. I can still envision her sitting in her chair in front of the kerosene-fuelled stove. She’d knit long garter stitch strips from yarn scraps and sew them into blankets. I think she was the one who taught me to knit. She was certainly the one who taught me how to skip rope.

Happy birthday, momse. We may not always have seen eye to eye, but we loved and understood each other. And I still miss you.

Title comes from this beautiful farewell song (youtube link). Post reposted from 2009, 2010 and 2011 with Momse’s age amended. I continue to miss her.

2 Thoughts on “In Her Soft Wind I Will Whisper

  1. I remember reading this last year with a kind of longing to have had a Momse like yours. Loving and understanding despite not seeing eye to eye, that’s a pretty great gift.

  2. My husband’s grandmother passed away this weekend. Apparently they had a similar closeness like you and your momse did. I’ll be sure to give him an extra hug today.

    That was a touching story. Thank you for posting.

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